The 10 second miracle pt 2

The 10 second miracle pt 2.

I hope you watched that movie. That movie is actually a requirement in the Ulosophy training. So get it, watch it and re watch it. There is a specific reason for this. I will explain later. You create everything in your life and you have created everything in your life. From all the bad and the good. That is why the 10 second miracle  says to take 100% responsibility for everything in your life.

Some people may feel bad because of it. But I'm here to tell you to not feel bad or negative that you create everything in your life and instead feel good, because just like you have created all the bad in your life you can also create all the good in your life. You should feel empowered beyond belief. Because you can create anything you want. You are 100% for your life. You have full control over your life. And anytime you don't feel like your in control then you must realise that all that is, is an illusion. Because whether you like it or not or whether you believe it or not you will create everything in your life and you will be 100% responsible for it. I suggest you also get the book and the movie called "the secret"

That book is in our basic book list so you should already have it. That book explains a concept known as the "the law of attraction"  bottom line your thoughts and the emotion behind it create your life. If you deep inside believe you are poor and that is what you deserve then you will experience just that. Just like if you think you deserve and expect to be well of that will also just be. Is your feelings that create your life. More on that later in the future for now all I want you to realise is two things. 1. You are 100% responsible for everything in your life thus you are in control of your life and no one else is. And 2. Your mind can interpret anything no matter how it is as good or bad and the one who executes that decision is you.

That alone will give you enough power to go after whatever you want. I will come out with a book on this in the future that will explain fully and the information in that book will change your life faster and more impacting than you can ever imagine. The best is yet to come with ulosophy so get excited.

I'm not asking you that you have to believe this now 100% but more what I'm asking you to do is to consider it. Consider that maybe.. just maybe this is might be true. Just consider it. Taking 100% responsibility for our lives and realising that we are in control of our lives is something the majority of people don't realise or even know. So whatever your situation may be no matter how bad it may look realise that 1. You created it and 2. That you can change it and create whatever you want.

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The 10 second miracle

There is a miracle that occurs in life. No everybody experiences it but everybody can. We all have the power to experience this miracle. This miracle will cause you to experience levels of empowerment unlike you could ever imagine. This also allows you to achieve whatever was you may have in a short period of time and enjoy every second of the journey. This miracle allows you to never again experience negative emotion especially confusion. Imagine being clear in your mind, imagine doubt melting away like hot butter.

Its possible with the 10 second miracle. In 10 seconds you can have this happen in 10 seconds your life can change for the better in 10 seconds all your dreams can literally come true. This 10 second miracle is not a metaphysical or spiritual process or something new age. Is not something you have to call upon another entity but yourself. YOU have all the power for this miracle and that is the whole point.. There is an interesting movie that makes a very interesting point.

it's called kung fu panda. The movie is about a panda who has a strong desire to master kung fu. And its also about a scroll that is unreachable and never seen before and only the one true master of all time would have access to see this scroll. The panda reaches this level of mastery and is allowed to see the inside of this scroll.

For his amazement and surprise he finds that the scroll contains nothing. Nothing of a word or a sentence. All it shows is sort hologram type of mirror where he can see his image. The meaning is that life's true secrets or secret is nothing outside of yourself. There is no outside influence that causes your true happiness and joy or success or whatever you categorize as success.

The secret that can give you ultimate and unlimited amount of power  in success is yourself. You are the answer you are the key. And every self help book or article or any word or sentence describing empowerment is really only trying to get to the point of realising that you are the power source. You have so much power that you only you causes the negative and positive events in your life. Your mind is so powerful that no matter what you are looking at you can interpreted it as positive or negative no matter what it is, the problem is that you have been interpreting everything as negative. All that can change once you learn this miracle and apply it. The 10 second miracle is that you are 100% responsible for everything in your life. The good and the bad. You've caused everything. This is hard to accept by most people at the beginning but this is true. This is not mystical nor supernatural there is really a scientific explanation behind it. There is a movie called "what the bleep do we know" I suggest you see it. You will see the scientific research that has been done and discovered that you and your thoughts actually do create your reality.

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Chief aim

An author that is most known and its data and information that have made more millionaires is the one and only Napoleon Hill. Napoleon is an interesting character in all forms or ways that a person is made of. His story is inspiring and how he came to write great material is even more inspiring an interesting. His ways are keys to success but they are things we don't do at all now a days.

Like I've mentioned countless of times before the success keys are not secrets nor are they hidden. Their in the open we just don't see them. Many of those keys are in Napoleon Hills material and his story. One of the concepts Napoleon talked about a lot and said that without this you cannot be successful is the concept about the Chief Aim. Do you at this moment have a chief aim? Be honest. If your answer is no then that would explain your lackness of success. You cannot hit a target you do not have. If you don't have a chief aim how can your mind work for you and give you the mental power and ideas for you to reach your chief aim. It just cant if you don't have a chief aim.

What is a chief aim? Well I cannot give you the full explanation here because I would just have to write an entire book. Yes that's how deep a basic concept can go. So I will give you a birds eye view of it. I recommend you read and re read Napoleon Hills books especially the laws of success in 16 lessons. A chief aim is what we could call your ultimate goal. For example my chief aim may be to become a manager in my job. It's something that is not just happen in a day or week or months. It takes time. But its a goal you ultimately want and their will be several steps you will have to go through in the process. Now a chief aim is something you have to make sure you have a very strong want and desire for. Is something you really really want. You may have heard several super successful people say. I sleep eat and breath this. That is what a chief aim is.

The reason Napoleon Hill said you must have it if you want to be successful is because the chief aim has so much energy behind it and your desire for it is so high that your focus is like the magnifying glass and the sun it has no other choice but to burn. And because your desire is high then you will focus on it non stop and the road to get there will be enjoyable because with every step you know your getting closer so your excitement increases and so does your belief.

The true secret behind the success of the chief aim is the energy and focus it requires from you. Many people relate this concepts to things like the law of attraction or positive belief type of ideologies. This concept relates so much yo success ideas because the bottom line is that the chief aim idea work s. If you talk to people with super success and they've never heard of the idea of the chief aim if they tell you their story you will find out that their description on how they got to their success it will sound just like what I described a chief aim was.

The chief aim is must have. I suggest you write your chief on a blank card and carry it with you on your wallet and take it out and read it as many times you can all through out the day. This will increase your focus and will ingrain this into your brain much deeper which will increase your desire into being much much faster.

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Excusitis The failure disease

Excuses are probably the next biggest illusion to fear. Whenever you have a plan or goal of any kind or whenever you want to do something of whatever source do you know that there is no valid excuse for why you did not accomplish it.. it's always a mind made up thing. That is all it is. Is an idea that your mind made up so you wont do it. Why would our mind do such a thing? Doesn't our mind want to be successful.. I want to be successful why wouldn't my mind want it the same way..

Well I'm here to break such a belief and tell you that NO your mind does not want you to do anything let alone be successful matter of fact not just does your mind feel this way but actually your whole biology shares this same desire. Your biology would prefer for you to just stay on the safe side, pump out 2 or 3 kids for the dna to keep going and that is about it. Because your biology all it wants and trys to do is to make you survive. This is where laziness come from and all unproductive scenarios including negative emotions come from (more on that later) it has many benefits but most of them are no longer necessary, they were during like our caveman days but their not needed anymore today.

So this is where excuses come from. But now that we know that it's all mostly illusions and not real then you must now realise as well that there is no such thing as excuses. The first ever self help book or matter of fact the first book I ever bought and read was "the magic of thinking big" that book alone deserves a blog post which I will actually do in the future. The whole book gives a basic idea and explanation to success concepts. Its a great read for beginners and advance success book readers.

But there is one chapter that stands out in that book out of all then matter of fact that chapter which I speak of is so outstanding and truth revealing that it probably land in the top 5 best chapters of all time in my opinion. That chapter in number two in the magic of thinking big called "excusitis, the failure disease" I recommend you read over and over till the end of your existence on this plain. Because it talks so deeply on excuses and how we make them all the time and is the reason for our failure. It also talks about how its all an illusion. I like how the author actually describes it as a disease because it actually is. It kills our dreams little by little and our success decreases with every excuse we make.

From making an excuse for why we will not do something from thinking were too young or too old, from not doing something because we might be ill or because we think we don't have enough intelligence. There is no excuses for anything. For every excuse you have had or are having and will one day have there is a person who has the same thing you have, the difference between you and them is that they did not make an excuse and they reached their goal and overcame whatever they had. In other words they did not let anything to hold them back.

So they succeeded. There is no excuse for anything. Its all just a false belief that you have. Think about how much you would accomplish if excuses were no longer a part of you. You would quickly and successfully reach every desire you may have. You would be an innovator a person with so much value to offer that being told no would no longer apply to you. Guess what that is possible if you would just cure yourself of the failure disease and you do that by starring to no longer make excuses and do it!


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You come first

For those of you who have flown on an airplane before will know what I'm talking about in this post. First of I hope you guys ate enjoying your holidays. Merry Christmas to all of you and may all of you have a blessed and safe holidays and new years. When you get on an airplane they explain something very crucial in detail before the plane takes off.

And that is about the oxygen mask that the plane have and how they would pop out in case of cabin pressure or emergency. And the message is specifically for parents or those who are flying with young ones. They say that in case of cabin pressure for YOU to put your mask on first before assisting your children. Because if you don't then your child may love or be conscious but you may not. So whatever the child may need there wont be anybody to assist him or her and the child has a higher risk of getting into danger.

But if you do what they are saying and follow the rules then you will be well and up and in a position where you can fully 100% assist and help the child by putting on their mask or anything else they may need. I love this concept and it really stands out to me because this concept is true and can be used in life whenever it comes to REALLY helping someone else.

One of the big things in life is the idea of good deeds in other words offering a help in hand to someone who needs it. I have nothing against this. I'm all for helping, in my opinion helping and offering help is one the greatest satisfaction s that exist. You get to offer value and you feel good about yourself. Material things cannot give you feelings of that nature or at least to that strong extent. But I do think there is a better way of offering help and to do it in a more effective way. And that is by making sure your fine, ok, good yourself first.

Most people when offering help most of the time they are not in a position where they should offer help or at least the help they really want to be impacting. For example if a good friend of yours is going through some pain and suffering because maybe they got fired or they lost a love one, if you go up and you feel terrible yourself or you may not be in a good healthy emotional state then how can you assist and make that other person feel better if both of you are in the low vibrational depressed, sad space. You CANT!

You need to help yourself first you have to make sure your in a better place than the person your trying to help. Not doing this is the wrong way to go about helping someone else. It's like people want to go and help those with not that many resources. Well if you don't have money and your sort of broke yourself you cannot really help anyone, we live in a material world whether you like it or not and money is necessary to live. So if you don't have an abundance the help your giving is not really making the real difference you want to make.

And this goes to this last thing I'm gonna talk about. Most people want to help and give advice on what to do and not to do. They do this so much and they try to help everyone they can but themselves. They go and spent their time and few dollars and try to help. The reality is that no matter how much advice they give or money they hand out nobody really is listening to them so they are not really changing or helping anybody.

The best way to impact a life is by inspiring that life. That is the BEST way to help anyone. Focus on yourself and work on becoming the best possible version of yourself and once you get to a place where you are abundant in success and happiness yourself just by your presence alone you will cause such an impact to that person who doesn't have much and that you want to help that you wouldn't even believe. You will offer something so valuable to that person just by your presence and that thing that is so valuable more than money or any material stuff is INSPIRATION that will cause them to change their life by their own choice.

Because for the first time in a very long time they feel and see real hope and that cause faith and faith is what dream are really made of so success for them is inevitable.

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Stinkin Thinking

Years ago there was a book that was released that really focused on positive thinking and how negative thinking can hold us back in major way. That book was originally called "Biscuits flees and pump handles" and later the title was changed to See you at the top the author was called Zig Ziglar. ZIG has passed away now, but his book and his teaching changed millions of lives all around the planet. I love how this book really confronts the negative attitudes some of us posses. Zig called it stinkin thinking.

He says it beautifully that stinking thinking leads to hardening of the attitudes. And is true it really does. When you think negative your attitude over time turns into a negative ball of energy that goes on like an auto pilot. Many of us matter of fact most people have stinkin thinking. Look around you from your job your friends and unfortunately some of your family. Were surrounded now a days with stinking thinkers. And if were surrounded around it long enough it will transport onto us. And now were even more infected with these negative thoughts and we the hardening of the attitudes. Have your mom ever called you hard headed? Most likely.

Negative attitudes and negative thoughts are really big road blocks to our success. It disempower us. We all the desire to succeed. In whatever were doing. If you have stinkin thinking. That will hold you back in many many ways. One of the big disadvantages that those negative thoughts gives us is that it illusion us. It makes us see things that are not there. Like maybe thoughts that we don't have what it takes. Or that were not worthy enough. Things like that drains us of energy and makes us not complete successfully what we want to see happen.

Negative thinking has always been going since the beginning if times. And it comes together with the whole saying that says joy would not feel as good without pain. Negativity in life allows us to pin point exactly what we don't want and to focus exactly on what we do want and just like the magnifying glass and the sun the focus burns and start a fire. So negativity is beneficial but the challenge is when we over do it. And the negativity over runs our thoughts mind and serenity. That is where it causes problems and is where the name stinkin thinking and that will lead to hardening of the attitudes and that will ultimately conclude your failure and demise.

Positivity on the other hand gives us energy, hope, faith and life if we really pin point it down. That is why all these courses and books have been coming out and getting big with the whole positivity concept. You and I cannot fool ourselves.. positivity is preferred more than negativity not just because of the positive results it can give is in life but because and ultimately how good it makes us feel. When your negative is like your view of life gets filtered through a dirty looking view that blocks all the possibilities and the good not just in things and events but most importantly in people when the good is there.

That is why negative people complain about nearly everything in their lives and complain and wonder why they are so unlucky. Well how can they see something other than those misfortunes if that is all that is going on in their mind and that transfers into their view. Life can be beautiful or it can be ugly.. is up to you and how you decide your attitude to be. Do yourself and those around you a favor, remove stinking thinking from your head and you will see your attitude change for the better and that will transform your life in a magical way.

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It's better to be an hour early than 5 minutes late

Time is probably the most valuable thing that exist within our grasp. Time is not renewable and you cannot get it back, so spending your time adequately and setting your priorities on the right directions is crucial. Just like time is valuable to you it is also valuable to everybody else whether they realise it or not.

And people know this internally. Some know it consciously and some know it unconsciously. And they will act on it in the same way. We are virtually built with the appreciation of time. Some people act as if money is the most valuable thing that exist, some people think material things are the most valuable. Are those things are renewable resources. Time isn't.

When you go through life you will have instances when you will come across with other peoples time and some will decide to spent their time with you. Most people don't even realise this and if they do they don't put any attention or importance to it. If we look at lives of successful people one common denominator with in them is how they value time. If you ever make a meeting with a very successful person you will realise that they are always early.

And it seems like they are the only ones who understand the value if time. Because if I make a meeting with a not so successful person most of the time they are never on time and if they are late they don't even apologise for it. Successful people are always early and if they are running late they call to let you know, and apologise once they get there and even offer to pay for the bill if its a meal were having. Who wouldn't like to do business or be friends with people like that.

The point is that they always acknowledged if they are running a little late or if they gave to cancel. Nobody is perfect and at times commitments get broken the problem is when one does not acknowledged it. If you start acting in this way of acknowledging time and being early the trust and impression you will get will be amazing.

If your early or if you acknowledge to the other person if your late or have to cancel that tells the other individual that you are a person of responsibility you are a person who one can trust and it shows you have good upbringing and class. Your success in relationships of all kinds will dramatically increase.

If I have a meeting and I'm running 5 minutes late most people think that is a small amount of time that it shouldn't be acknowledged, that is where they are wrong. Leaders and successful are uncommon because they do things nobody else does and things others are not willing to do. If I'm 5 minutes late I make sure I call the person and tell them I'm running late. They cant even believe it because most likely I'm the first person who they ever saw do such a gracious act.

And once I get there I apologise once again and offer to pay for the meal. They reply by saying to don't worry about it and that it wasn't a big deal that everything was ok. I reply by saying no lunch is on me or whatever were having. It's the simple things that count and make the difference when you live like this relationships and deals always work out. Most people focus on the business plans or things they can do about the relationships, when all it takes for it to work are the simplest things one if the what were talking about and that is TIME.

And this is not just for works in business this is important and can be used in all relationships. Your value goes up and your relationships become better and work your way.


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Negative or positive? It's really up to you

Our lives can be define very simply, all it is is a big mixture of events. That is really all it is. Is just a big ball of events. If you read between the lines you will see that there is no such things as positive or negative events. It really just events and events alone.  Things are the way they are but it's our mind and thoughts that judge them and classify them as negative or positive.

Think about this.. let's say you are having a good time somewhere. Maybe your with your family or friends and enjoying quality time. Or maybe your by yourself, maybe reading a book or cooking or heck even watching tv. Bottom line your having a good time and you feel really good. Then you get a phone call from a co worker of yours and he tells you that the company is about to shut off and close down and that tomorrow everybody will be laid off..

You immediately start feeling bad and a bunch of negative emotions. You feel terrible and scared. You were feeling good and within a couple of seconds you go to feeling terrible. Although nothing has really changed. Your house is still there, your car is still there, everything you own is still in tact. But you feel terrible as if it was taken away from you. This is a good example of how powerful and judgemental your mind is with situations.

This same thing applies to everyday situations. Things are the way they are. But it's our mind that judges the event. Depending on your mental habits it will come to the conclusion of a judgment of positive or negative aspect. Now most people unfortunately fall under the negative side when it comes to labeling their events in life although they have the power and access to make it a positive as well.

In every situation or event that happens to you no matter how good or bad it may seem 1. It's really just events no positive or negative 2. Your mind still requires a labeling to the event and that is where you come in and you have 2 choices you can either see it as a negative event or a positive event is within your power.

And you can always find the negative or positive. Ideally you want to start getting into the habit of looking for the positive. Because you have the access to find the positive in EVERYTHING just as you have the choice to find the negative. Henry Ford made a great statement. He said " whether you think you can or whether you think you can't either way your right because your THINKING makes it so"

You have all the power to make your life a heaven or hell. We could be living in a potential paradise but we cant see it because were too stuck on the negative. Get into the habit of finding the gold in everything. Let me you in on a secret the gold is everywhere and in everything. No matter what it is. You can find the negative or positive.


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The basic book list

Today I decided to give you all guys more gold than you can handle all at once. This is a list of what I call the basic book list. I was given this list years ago. I have read and re read all these books several times and till this day I seem to get something new everytime. There is a lot of books out there matter a fact there are more than we can read in one lifetime around the concept of success and how to achieve it. Many of those authors have made most of their success from publishing those books and not before it. (More on all of this later)  at times I may repost this post on the blog instead of a new one for the reason that this list will be our weapon through our whole ulosophy journey. There is an advance list but you don't need to focus on those advance data. This is the basic list and most important. The deeper your foundation the higher will your building be. 

Re and re read this list as far as most incorrect information out there this is the best from all of them. This is the meat from all that data out there on this subject. This list will save you time so you wont have to through all the junk. This list will be your foundation and this list covers all the material from Ulosophy at all levels. But just like with everything whenever you get data you must take it with DISCERNMENT. 

Some of these books are 90% on track some are 99% on track so read with DISCERNMENT. This list carries books that have information that you must have and do unconsciously. Get the information down and use space repetition on it so you can master this information. More on this list later for now here it is. May you never be the same and focus.

The Magic of Thinking Big 

The Secret 

Think and Grow Rich

Ask and It Is Given

How To Win Friends and Influence People

The Go-Getter 

See You At the Top

How to Have Power and Confidence When Dealing With People 

The New Psycho-Cybernetics 

The Magic of Believing 

The Law of Success in 16 Lessons (2 Volume Set)

How I Raised Myself From Failure to Success Through Selling

Acres of Diamonds

As a Man Thinketh

It Works: The Famous Little Red Book That Makes Your Dreams Come True!

Readers are always leaders. Read these books over and over this is the list we will always focus on through Ulosophy

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The sweet spot

We all have desires and goals. Things we want to see happen is what gives us that drive in our lives. We all have tried at one point or another to achieve a goal of ours. Whether it was in your job or your family even personal. Most likely than not we failed. Not because we were not smart enough or hungry enough but the most common reason this happens is because we don't know the PROPER way of going about it .

In other words we don't know the recipe to make want we want exquisite and successful. What if I told you there was a way that you can learn and will learn in this post on how to never fail again.. something that literally guarantees 100% success.. you would want to know what exactly is it right? You will learn it today and after you read you will have a deep understanding of why you had failed and may of succeeded.

As I like to do, I like focusing and most of my teachings are around what I like to call the basic concepts. In my opinion life is simple and everything in it is as well. The challenge that we sometimes gather with life is that we make it more complicated than it actually is because we actually believe that success in life requires a huge amount of knowledge, and we also believe that most of that knowledge is secret, when in reality is simple. That is why the richer gets richer and... you know the rest.

Here is the simplicity.. whenever you have a goal or desire you must realise that just like with anything that has a destination it must have some type of force or energy to push it for it to get there. A car needs gas, a plane needs fuel, a city needs power etc. Your goals need energy as well so if you don't have it your destined for failure.

What gives your goal energy to get where it needs to? All it needs is you.. but what gives YOU the energy you needs to make the dream a reality... BELIEF. When you have belief in yourself and your dream then that is all is really necessary and everything else like the technicalities and etc will fall into place.

When you have belief on your dream you hit a spot I like to call the sweet spot.. the sweet spot is where your dream is big enough to get you excited but small enough that you believe you can achieve it. That is the secret to all. Is belief. Throughout your life you thought belief was all mystical but its not just that, it actually has a logical purpose which is what we talked about.

When ever you have a dream make sure it's in the sweet spot. What most people do is they think of this huge big dream and they never get to achieve it because their belief level is not there. So once you achieve something in YOUR sweet spot then your belief rises a little more and you can go for something a little bigger and on and on. This is what all successful people do. If you do this accomplishing your goals will be so much fun and less heartache because doubt will not be there so you wont wonder if it will come to pass or not. Live your dreams you are a winner.. Focus on your sweet spot.


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when the going gets tough the tough gets going

Challenges, situations and everything similar to these two words can be consider as things that we all go through out life, whether we like it or not quiet frankly. There is two kinds of people. There are those who overcome these challenges successfully and then there are those who let these challenges overcome them. The overcomers are a small group and it seems as time goes on that they are getting smaller and smaller. Why? Could it be that the challenges are getting bigger? Or could it be that our thoughts about it are the ones getting bigger? Well if we look through out history we can see that what we call challenges were actually bigger and more challenging to overcome before in time than it is now. Think about it... before it would take months to travel the oceans now it only takes hours, before the color of your skin had the possibility of getting you killed now it's appreciated.. it is only our thoughts that makes them bigger. If you could see and understand this then you are on your way to a more relaxing enjoyable life. But if you don't then you are looking at a challenging go ahead but the secret is you also have the opportunity to tap into a power that is within you and can only be let out with enough pressure and pain, almost like the coal that turns into a diamond.

When you see things going bad enough and your pain is high enough your emotions get really ramped up, like anger, disappointment and plenty of grief and many more they could get to a point where feeling negative and powerless wont cut it for you anymore. You can actually get to a point where you are so fed up and angry that nothing else matter and you are willing to take the challenge head on no matter if it could cost your life.

Our heroes throughout history have experienced this, is only at the last straw of their battle that they find a strength they did not know existed, and its that strength that gets them not only to the finish line but also to first place.  Its almost similar to the experience of people who come close to death, maybe like a car crash or robbery. If you talk to these people they'll tell you that at the moment it happened it's like the whole world slowed down and nothing at that moment nothing matter. And they found that they were not afraid they actually felt with endless life at that moment. There has been cases that have been documented that describe similar incidents, and they find that people find this power and are able to come out their deadly surroundings some even report how they develop an unknown strength were they are able to lift literally heavy objects like a car or whole body just to survive or to save a life.

What I'm trying to say is that when it gets tough or you come across a challenge that seems unbearable know that you have an opportunity to let abilities out within you that you didn't know existed. Maybe if you loss your job you get angry enough to never again settle for less and wont settle for anything lower than a very high number. And the day of the interview you come in so determined that you come with the number you had in mind or even higher.

You think it was luck this whole time that people who are the most successful had? It wasn't luck at all it was their determination that came out like bullet that landed them the energy to take on the big opportunities.  That is why Napoleon Hill said that in the midst of adversity lie the seeds of greater possibility.. He was right.


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Your weaknesses are God's gifts

A very very small amount of people have really any type of awareness of their strengths and weaknesses. In life you must be aware of both on a very deep level, at least if you want a decent level of success in your life.

You see when we are aware of such things such as our strengths and weaknesses then we know exactly what were dealing with. One we know our strengths, so when we feel like were not valuable for whatever matter we have something we can back on upon that will let us keep that confidence alive. Two we can aware of our weaknesses, that allows us to realise exactly what we need to focus on so we can become better.

These and there are many more benefits we can associate with knowing and being aware of these two subjects which we will go in deeper in a later post. What I want to focus on today is the fact that we don't realise how valuable our weaknesses can be. When we look at our weaknesses we try to avoid them, condemned them, and wishing they would just go away with time.

There is much wisdom and power within those weaknesses. It's easy to point at our strengths and work with them and see their benefit and value to our lives in many ways. But what if I told you that your weaknesses can not only give you the same benefit as your strengths but make even make you a legend.

It sounds absurd, but is true. You see our weaknesses are those things that we would like to get rid of and wonder at times for why we were handle this cards. When in truth they were given to us as a blessing. Look at people who are legends and masters at their professions, if you find their story out you will see that their greatest asset in their type of field that they use and are most common for were once their weakness or weaknesses.

A good example was the famous baseball player "Pete Rose" Pete was born with a gift and that gift was fielding, he was so good at it and impressed virtually anybody who saw him play with his fielding skills, he was such a gifted young man in fielding but terrible at hitting. One day Pete s dad pointed something out that would change his game forever. He told him that he was focusing to much on what he was good at which was fielding but what he needed to really focus on was what he was not that good at which was hitting. So he did and till this day Pete Rose is known as one of the greatest hitters of all time.

When we focus on our weaknesses that makes us put more time in working on them because they require much more time than something we are a bit good at. That means the intensity and the amount of practice we put on them if we want to make them better is way higher than practicing something were already good at. That will only conclude huge and mega positive results on the outcome from it.

And our weaknesses have the potential and give us the opportunity to make us not only good at them but beyond good, legendary is a better word. If you are not good at something or a thing just has not worked out to your favor instead of criticizing the reason and asking why were you born with such weaknesses and feeling helplessness just know that you have opportunities to not only be good on something but actually to be GREAT!

The basic book list

Today I decided to give you all guys more gold than you can handle all at once. This is a list of what I call the basic book list. I was given this list years ago. I have read and re read all these books several times and till this day I seem to get something new everytime. There is a lot of books out there matter a fact there are more than we can read in one lifetime around the concept of success and how to achieve it. Many of those authors have made most of their success from publishing those books and not before it. (More on all of this later)  at times I may repost this post on the blog instead of a new one for the reason that this list will be our weapon through our whole ulosophy journey. There is an advance list but you don't need to focus on those advance data. This is the basic list and most important. The deeper your foundation the higher will your building be.

Re and re read this list as far as most incorrect information out there this is the best from all of them. This is the meat from all that data out there on this subject. This list will save you time so you wont have to through all the junk. This list will be your foundation and this list covers all the material from Ulosophy at all levels. But just like with everything whenever you get data you must take it with DISCERNMENT.

Some of these books are 90% on track some are 99% on track so read with DISCERNMENT. This list carries books that have information that you must have and do unconsciously. Get the information down and use space repetition on it so you can master this information. More on this list later for now here it is. May you never be the same and focus.

The Magic of Thinking Big

The Secret

Think and Grow Rich

Ask and It Is Given

How To Win Friends and Influence People
The Go-Getter

See You At the Top

How to Have Power and Confidence When Dealing With People

The New Psycho-Cybernetics

The Magic of Believing

The Law of Success in 16 Lessons (2 Volume Set)

How I Raised Myself From Failure to Success Through Selling

Acres of Diamonds

As a Man Thinketh

It Works: The Famous Little Red Book That Makes Your Dreams Come True!

Readers are always leaders. Read these books over and over this is the list we will always focus on through Ulosophy

Spaced Repetition

Learning is a universal truth, we all love to learn something new, having an abundance of knowledge gives us a good image of ourselves not just to other people but to ourselves. It gives us confidence, self esteem. But most importantly it gives a good foundation for us to make proper decisions.

We can all acquire knowledge but few can really master it. Anytime you learn something new as soon as you learn you will realise that it took no more than 5 seconds to learn it, what you may not realise at that moment is that it takes a lifetime to master it.

Mastering what we learn is a thought that comes right after learning. It's funny that we all have that desire when it comes to learning. How do we get to the mastery level? Again that is what we want after all. Well there is a very common denominator that is aware of when it comes to all master of every field out there and to how they acquire it. That denominator is repetition. A better word for it that I like myself is "spaced repetition" this is when you learn something and you do it over and over again. The way we acquire mastery through it is that every time we go through it not only does it ingrain in our brain a little deeper but we get something new every time we go through it.

The knowledge or facts of the concept were learning increases with every run of it. The neuro pathways multiply as well. There is an unfortunate thing we have when it comes to spaced repetition and that is that we don't use it. A very small amount of people understand the power behind it, that is why the legends are few and far in between each other as well.

For example our school regulations is probably one if not the most important aspect when it comes to the focus that we give for the growth of our society, that is why education is a big deal everywhere. But in my opinion we don't ingrained the concepts within our young students as much as we think we do in reality. We don't make sure accurately that the student has really grasped the knowledge taught as his grade level.

We just give them an exam if they can do kind of well we just give them a pass without assuring that the knowledge they were taught one lesson at time was ingrained. For one we don't use spaced repetition when teaching the lessons, they just go through it one time maybe even give them a pop quiz and then just move on.

But if you look at people at very high levels and how they make their children and taught and how they are trained themselves. They make sure they sure they repeat the lessons over and over till they get to a competent level that can real beneficial because of how ingrained it is. Look at your life, whether is your job or if you own a business, you find a way on how to do something.. do you make sure to repeat it over and over till you get it and not only will you get it deeply when you do this but you will discover new things every time you go through it, this is where innovation is born from.

Its not because the person was a genius or they had a such advance mind unlike anybody else. The truth is that its really not that case. But it all stems from the concept of spaced repetition. No matter what it is or how bad you are at it, spaced repetition can take you to any level you wish, and when you get there there is an opportunity to go higher.

This is the beauty of learning, the beauty that is rarely used is that you can over some thing and infinite amount of time and still find something new. This is a secret only the ultimate successful people use and truly understand. Make the choice today to engage upon it and research around so you can truly understand it as well. How can you lose. With understanding this you literally cant.

False Evidence Appearing Real

We all have it, we all experience it, some more than others but we all know how it feels like. I'm talking about one of the most if not the most dream stealers and killers. I'm talking about fear. We seem to encounter the most anytime we actually want something a lot. Whenever we encounter the unfortunate thing is that we start paying more attention to it than our actual objective we started out with.

Not only do we start paying attention to it but we also start to believe it. And when that happens then is a spiral downward from there we either decide to don't go ahead with our decision or we decide to quit if we already started. The challenge is not just that, the truth is that fear is really nothing more than an illusion, it's a lie and will always remain that way. The energy behind fear is very dense in other words its very realistic, a good example is by just looking back at your life and your past experiences. Look back at your so called horrible instances, the moments you felt hopeless, the moments were it seemed that fear and a terrible outcome was the only things you could hold on to, we all had them..

Let me ask you this question.. Did the incident ever turned out the horrible way you pictured it would? The answer is NO. matter a fact it didn't turn out not even close to the tragedy you thought it would. Zig ziglar makes an interesting classification when it comes to fear. He says that fear stand for FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL it simply is not real, is an illusion and simply a liar.

Whenever you decide to do something significant your brain will throw a sort of fear at you, this small amount it does throw at you is not harmful all it is ment for is for your survival, it makes you double think about it whether you really want to go through it because that big goal and its territory is unknown. So it kind of prevents you from what could be a dangerous situation since it is classified as unknown.

But you have the ultimate decision and you have the ultimate power to discern it and move through it. But what most people do is they not only believe this fear but they start focusing on it and then make it bigger than it actual is. Its like when you have a spot of dirt or trash in your eye, it looks big to your retinal vision but it really is just a speck.

FDR made such a statement that can resonate with every single one of you when it comes to fear. He said "The only thing we must fear is fear itself" there is nothing to fear because if you really look at it beneath through it you will see there is nothing to be fearful of, Pull back the curtain of the so called great oz, and you will see that is was nothing big or great at all it was all just an illusion.

Want to be? Act like you are..

We have all been in this situation. In the situation where we don't want to do something, maybe is work, or a task, or cleaning etc. But we know we have to do it. So we make ourselves do it and suddenly a couple minutes pass and you start doing more and more actions and then you just start feeling good.

You begun not wanting to be there let alone wanting to do it, but now is like you never had those beginning feelings at all. You see this is a key when you want to do something or your feeling a little bit foggy and you want to get out of it and get to your positive happy self.

You have to act upon it first. If your feeling depressed and your feeling low and feeling like not doing a damn thing, remember what Dale Carnegie said "If you want to be enthusiastic, YOU must act enthusiastic." Usually when you are depressed or feeling low you have your shoulders down your head slumped and walking kind of slow, if you want to get out that funk then try doing the opposite. Pull your chest out head and shoulders up, start walking a little faster and you will notice something begin to happen almost like magic you begin to feel good and more alive and the negative emotion seem to melt away like butter.

You control your feeling and you don't have to deal with and be stuck to negative emotions or states. You are 100% in control. So how about when it comes to success, would this still apply? Of course it would. You can begin to becoming a super successful person by beginning to act like one. You see when you begin to act like success you will begin to then FEEL like one and once that is happening on a regular basis you will begin to start taking actions like a successful person would because not only will that feeling of a successful person will be flowing through you but that creates a belief and once that belief is there fear and doubt leaves and your actions will take a collision of change and productivity.

This is one of the reasons the whole think positive concept comes from. Because you must FEEL like something to become it.

You make the rules

Everyday and at any moment we come across all kinds of regulations from traffic regulations, to regulations at work and all the above. But what about rules? Are rules and regulations the same? No, they are not the same, regulations are what they are what they are, they are either law enforced or labor works and so on. But the rules nobody really sets them but YOU.


You create the rules of your life. Where people get confused is that they think someone else creates the rules. An example is this, people make a big deal about a making a million dollars, if you could make a million dollars you become super successful. If you believe this then guess what, if your working and focused on making money and you've made quite a good amount but not a million. Then you will still unfortunately feel like you haven't won. How could you ever built the confidence needed to get to that million. In reality NEVER.

Remember that you make the rules. Start by making the rules easy for you to win. Yes your ultimate goal may be a million and I'm not saying to change it, all I'm saying is change the rules. Instead of making the rule that you are gonna be this ultimate winner when you make a million you can change it to something smaller and something you know you can hit. That will build confidence and you will feel like the true winner you really are all the time..

How great and good will that be, actually it would be a blast. The whole point when it comes to success is to realise that success is really just a decision away and that you have control of it all. Stop listening and following societies rules, because they are opinions. Do what all the super successful and happiest people all around the world do and that is realising that YOU call the shots in YOUR life. And whatever you say goes

The challenge with why people feel like they haven't accomplished much and stay there is because they are giving their power away, their giving their power to other people, how can you ever really succeed when you have no power at all because you given it all away..

If you want to lose weight which is is something most people struggle with, instead of following the rule that sexy or an ideal weight is 130 pounds and your 200 pounds overweight no matter how hard you try your chances of winning are close to impossible, your too far away. Your giving your power away, that means no energy and that means no action or if you do take action you'll quit because your not in CONTROL!

But if you realise you set the rules and you make the rule that loosing one pound is success then that will make it easier for you and when you reach that pound and lose it you'll feel like a million bucks and you would have develop the confidence to set a higher goal.
Remember you are in control of your life nobody sets the rules for you. You are a winner take charge, and know that you make the rules in YOUR life.

Leaders are always Readers

Leaders are always readers and readers always become leaders. Books is an abundance that we seem to don't cherish much today. There is so much value and knowledge in them that this is the reason why they have withstand themselves all the way to today. If you look at leaders all through out history and even today they all have common denominators one of those denominators stand out from all of them and one of the major important ones.

And that is reading, reading is the only way to get in touch with masters of all different kind of fields, you may want to associate with a certain individual who has master his craft and find how he thinks and acts, although you cannot just call him on the phone and schedule a get together you can still associate with him through books. Whether they are still living or dead you can still learn from them through books.

This is why all of our leaders cherish books and read all the time. And those who always seem to struggle and never seem to hit that break they want although they've tried nearly everything it will always show that they are lacking reading. And I'm not saying you cannot achieve what you want without reading what I'm really trying to say is that the journey to get there will take much much longer. Experience is the number one way of learning but reading helps so so much and is much faster.

For many many reasons this is true. From learning from others mistakes to observing exactly what one did to succeed and then you can mimic them. But the one reason I think it really comes out as most important is because you are using something that is getting away from us now a days especially from our young ones and that is IMAGINATION. When you learn how to use imagination and do it often you become in more control of your mind because you are 'much more familiar to it and you also give a major increase to all kinds of muscles of decision and creativity methods so whatever you are interested in and start working on it or whatever you wish to do you will find more answers much more easily and your finish product will come out better. But the one benefit I love is that if you are reading something your not only learning, but your imagination opens the door to creation and that will make what you are learning to be ingrained much more than just by seeing it because YOU are creating every imagine being described through reading and is that creation that allows it to stick because your brain is moving millions and millions of cells and creating neuro pathways by force to create those images for you instead than just them being given to you by seeing them with your eyes. Leaders are always readers and readers always become leaders.

Perseverance vs Intelligence

Good day to every single one if you who have decided to read this today. The reason your reading is not by coincidence. In my opinion there is a reason behind everything and I mean EVERYTHING. Today I want to talk to you guys about 2 phenomenas, perseverance and intelligence. Both play a big part in life in any endeavor we come across and decide to endure we use both of these.

But one of them has been made as the ultimate and with out it it is said you wont make it, and that is Intelligence. The theory out there says that intelligence is required for success in any goal or dream you may have, it has gotten to the point that if one doesn't feel he is intelligent enough for his goal they develop fear and end up not even trying and if they do try they end up quitting.

What is the real truth. Well if you look through out history a lot of those who overcame big challenges and became super successful really didn't have any huge intelligence and they became super legend worthy. Could it be that perseverance is much more powerful than intelligence?

We must understand first that intelligence is something people are born with, they grow up and through all of it they just seem to get numbers, calculations, and all the details when it comes to figuring things out. This may sound a little disempowering but let me tell that is really not. Because perseverance always out smarts intelligence, and you could be the most intelligent problem solver in the world but if you don't have perseverance and the willingness to win you will just be a s super smart loser.

If your not intelligent you cant just go and make yourself intelligent but you can get better and you should get better and strive to become more knowledgeable. Just like some people are better in playing the piano than others or some people are more inclined to sports some people are just more inclined to intelligence but like I also stated all that doesn't mean you can't better.

But is perseverance who allows you to overcome anything and everything that stands in your front of you and your ultimate aim. So don't think just because you may not have the right requirements for a certain thing that you wont be able to achieve, there is nothing holding you back and there is nothing that will and should prevent you from being that overcome r you are. And with perseverance you will ultimately win, history has proven that.

Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill

Good day to everybody, the weekend just passed and I'm feeling refreshed and ready to take on the week hope you are as well. Today I want to talk about making mountains out of mole hills. We have all done them at different parts of our lives. They are not hard to make at all either, matter of fact your body's mechanisms are kind of design to do them in rare instances for your survival.

The challenge is that they are unnecessary unless we were living back in the cavemen days. Were not! so they are really quite useless. You may really have an issue with always making things bigger than they are. Many of us do, maybe our health is out of wack a little, maybe you have a certain pain or you may have acquired a chronic disease, as time keeps moving so do our feeling and fears. We would probably start thinking that maybe this could be much more serious than expected or that it will only get worse as time goes on. Things could of went from being diagnosed with a diagnosis that can be treated successfully with patience and time, but our thoughts and mind can sometimes turn into a spiral downward.

You have to realise that nothing is never really as bad as it looks. Whenever there is a discovery that comes into your life that may somewhat seem negative at the moment of the realization you will always have two options, one you can accept it, and stay modest, humble and positive and handle the situation presented. Or two, you will look at it and slowly but surely will turn bigger than it is by the negative thoughts of how bad it could get and with time make it into a self fulfilling prophecy.

And this accounts to arguments, situations and challenges, really anything that may look not desirable. In the truth the reality is that nothing and I mean NOTHING is really that big as you may think it is. It really is not. All it is is your patterns of negativity that start to slowly take over and before you know the situation goes out of your control and moves straight into the arms of the what if? Questions.

Look at your life and your past challenges. Look back at the real bad ones, the ones you didn't know if you were to come out the same. Most probable than not you had a certain way you thought you and the situation were to come out, in other words you had the a bad terrifying outcome in your head. If you look back at it the outcome was nothing close to the terrible scene you had in your head. And you made it through, survived and you became stronger. But it never came out like you thought.

And surprisingly it never comes out like you think. Whether its a good situation or bad one. It NEVER comes out like you think. You just over think It and one thought feeds the next one and next one. Just look back at your life.. nothing has ever turned out as bad as you originally thought it would. And nothing is as bad as you think. I think it was Shakespeare that said that nothing is good or bad, its just your thinking that makes it that way. And of course I was paraphrasing but it was similar to that extent.

Bottom line there is nothing never as bad as you think. Anytime you have a thought about something and it looks negative and real terrible know that is NOT! Your just making a mountain out of a molehill.

Will you ever totally get it?

What a good day it is today, another opportunity for growth, and to receive all types of blessings. It's December, were right at the exit of the year. I'm here thinking today of all the things I've learned through out this year, it's been a lot. My teachability index was not always a 10 but it has been higher than average. Now there are also lessons and concepts that I learned years ago and this year I still discover new insights about them.

I sit here with a question.. Will I one day get it for good? In other words, will I ever get it to the point I don't have to learn it anymore? I seem to ask this question literally every year and the answer is always the same.. NO! No matter how competent I think I got at it.

I really like how cooking teaches so much about learning and growing, its probably one of the best ways to look at these type of concepts we talk about in action.

If you like to cook you probably have a dish that not only do you LOVE making it but your real good at it also, it tastes delicious every time. Although your dish is pretty mouth watering and sooo good you will still find with time new insights, new ways you can make it better. Talk to any chef or somebody who really loves being in the kitchen and you will find that they'll tell you this to be true.

The truth is that no matter how good you may be or do something you will never get it.. although you do it proficient, although you may be the best in your work to construct it, if you stay humble and teachable you will always find new things you didn't see before. Maybe you realised that you could add something to make it stable or maybe take something out to make it faster.

Heck, you've seen a good movie before and later on in time decide to re watch it, you just like everyone else that choose to re watch a film always seem to find something we didn't see the first time we've seen it.

And if you choose to watch it again in the future you will realise the same thing over and over again. The same thing comes to your work, family relationships, friends, hobbies, and any and every endeavor that exist on the face of the planet. You have the ability to focus on something and make it as good as you could ever imagine.

Look at people like Thomas Edison. They say that it took over 10,000 times for him to finally perfect the light bulb. We'll although we see Edison as a revolutionary and how good he worked and how much of a genius he was, Edisons final product was not the end result.

We have light bulbs today that are smaller and in all shapes, they save more energy, they last longer. They are BETTER. And although they are better there is still room for improvement and no matter how good they become there will always be an opportunity to make it better.

So if you have ever asked yourself regarding something you were learning or experiencing the question. Will I ever totally get it? Just know that you'll never get it, your always GETTING IT. And if you do get complacent and think you've mastered it or has gotten to the end of the learning curve realise that the curve is never ending and you can go higher and higher.

This is what separate those that are average from those who become innovators and legends. Those that become the legends are not better than you nor are they different or luckier than you, they are just like you the only difference is that they chose to stick a little longer and more open with the task at hand and hit the jackpot.

You can also hit the jackpot, if you don't quit and keep learning. Remember that you will never get it no matter how awesome whatever you doing is coming out.. because your always GETTING IT!

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Sympathy vs Empathy

Support and being there for somebody is a very good feeling that should come out of both parties. There is nothing like the feeling to spend time with a friend or love one who might be going through something and knowing that your presence alone is making a bit of a difference, and believe it or not it does. When your down and out feeling lonely could be a recipe for disaster, we are design to comfort and accompany each other and I personally don't think there is anything wrong with that at all.

The issue comes when we see our beloved friend or love one or mainly anybody who may want our comfort and we see them feeling real bad, their whole turns into almost a negative ball of energy as it should since they may going through something terrible and strong and then we ourselves start FEELING BAD WITH THEM.

That is the issue. You must understand that if you really want to be there for somebody and you really want to help them then YOU must be in a different energy space that they may find themselves in. You must be above the emotional tone scale, you must feel empowered. If not how can you expect to make the other individual feel better? YOU CAN'T. Two drowning people cannot help each other not drown. It's almost like all these people who actually good meaning hearts but they have no money and yet want to help people who are at their same position or similar to it.

They are trying to fight fire with fire. Managing and helping with the problem become quite very difficult if not impossible. The place most people find themselves when encountering another individual going through some tough times is the place of "Sympathy" this place will not solve anything. It will comfort them and might make them feel worse but at least they are not alone.

In other hands when you encounter this challenge with somebody and decide to feel "Empathy" then you don't lose power, you don't lose your hope for a better outcome, and then and only then will the individual realise and feel true comfort and peace and this will open a huge door for faith. There is a difference between the two and is very specific, plus very simple.

Sympathy is when you feel bad when somebody else feels bad, Empathy is when you acknowledge somebody else is feeling but you yourself doesn't feel bad. Many people look at this and think that this is selfish and wrong, when in reality it's actually empowering not only to you but to the person who needs it the most and that is the person who is feeling bad. It empowers you because understanding this concept allows you to be take more control over how negativity affects you. And it helps the other person by making then feel better not just about the situation but with certainty about the future and that is the best way to help anyone who is going through a challenge and desires comfort.

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In life you have to care but not that much

Whenever it comes to necessities, like food, shelter, water. If you are reading this most likely you have those NEEDS met not just now but mostly all your life. And most likely you have also had moments through out your life that you found a little undesirable and you've fallen under the captivity of COMPLAINING. Maybe you witness somebody else get the promotion you been wanting and working for quite a while now.

Maybe you were struggling financially and had some bills back paid and you saw somebody else living pretty well off. You started complaining by saying to yourself how you were much more intelligent and competent than the person who got the promotion. You may have also complained about the person you saw well off financially by saying that you don't know why your struggling when your such a kind and nice Samaritan and that those other people are mischievous and cant comprehend how they get these big breaks.

Although you have everything you NEED you still seem to complain. Another issue is that you may be putting much more importance to things around you than you should. You may be in fear of loosing your job on a regular basis when you actually are intelligent enough to get another one like it if you were to lose it. if they hired you there they can hire you somewhere similar as well. Maybe your stuck in depression and anxiety for the unknown future and wonder how will things turn out, you may not succeed, and you start being bombarded with what if? Questions. And that fuels all the negativity you've been experiencing.

The thing is that you have an issue of caring too much, that prevents you from living happy and fulfilled because when you care too much it is as if your putting the whole world on your shoulders. And that starts to put you in a position where you feel responsible for others. That is why you feel worry and anxiety. No matter how it is, good or bad, you have to understand that nothing and I mean nothing requires that much attention from you.

No matter how bad or good it may look, if it causes you to feel negative emotion you are putting too much unnecessary attention to it.   Your literally are making a mountain out of a mole hill. You are sweating the small stuff. But what you don't realise is that everything is nothing more than small stuff. I want to also make you remember this saying. "Instead of having needs, have small preferences" whenever you get an outcome you did not expect or you find out your getting something you don't want, or you may not be getting what you wanted. No matter how much time you put in it or how hard you worked on it, nothing is that important for you to feel bad,

There is nothing wrong with experiencing sorrow or sadness like when somebody close passes away or an accident happens, just don't stay stuck in it. Which is what most people do. Caring too much leads to an early grave, and a miserable existence. Always remember to care.. but not that much, take life lightly. Have a drink, eat the dessert and enjoy it,  everything is ok and it is always ok. Appreciate the sweetness and bitterness of life alike. This is a beautiful experience called life. And in life you have to care.. but not that much.

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Play the understanding game

If your driving, and out of no where there is a vehicle on your left or right and suddenly CUTS YOU OFF! Are you one of the people who gets mad out of control and starts yelling, cussing and over the wall annoyed.. Or are you one of those very rare individuals who just let it rub off you and really just don't let incidents of that nature to even affect you, and go about your day. Or are you just one of those incredibly super rare individuals who actually look at it almost as a blessing because you didn't crash and probably think that the individual who just cut you off most likely had a bad day or terrible incident that is making him rush and take an action like that..

Most people fall under the first explanation I just described. If you let something this small to get you into a negative mood then I would totally understand if I were to look and see your status as unsuccessful, because if you let something this small control you because it's making you lose half a second to your destination, then what were to happen when an incident happens on the way to making your goal a reality and sets you back 5 months or a year back? You would most likely quit, because you have no strength to hang with the wolves and lions of competition and incidents that have to be there on the road to success so you can blissfully enjoy the result to a very high extent.

Whenever there is an incident that somebody acts in a negative, rude, jerk type of matter towards you, try to play the understanding game, instead of reacting, and acting as a puppet and allowing people to pull your strings. The understanding game will allow you to control any negative interactions with any body and any time, it will not only increase your self esteem but it will make you become more valuable as a human being and you will always have the upper hand and you will come out as a winner of the so called argument or negative incident every time.

You have to understand that the reason that person is acting like a jerk or being rude is really all because they have a bigger negative issue going on and you were just lucky enough to receive their anguish. Because the negative feelings in all of us have to come out somehow, so your almost like a reliever for them. Maybe their pet just passed away or a family member or friend passed away, maybe their on the verge of a divorce or maybe they just got fired and their feeling terrible or even maybe they just got news that they just won the lottery and rushing home to celebrate.

The point is this.. whatever negative action you receive from somebody else there is always a reason that would make that negative reaction to be understandable. Playing the understanding game allows you to become an amazing person because of how good you will feel since the negative wont affect you. You will also raise your value because doing this increases your character to tremendous levels. Play the understanding game and become that winner you were meant to be.

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If you don't love yourself, nobody else will love you

"If you don't love yourself nobody else will love you" that saying must be internally ingrained with in your whole dna, if you want good relationships with your friends, family, and anybody you can come in contact with. But most importantly with yourself you will have to learn to love yourself.

If your lacking in any of these then there is an outstanding chance that you have a challenge with not only loving yourself but with accepting yourself. If you would just focus on loving yourself in actuality all other relationships will fall into place. The reason for that is because when you love yourself and accept yourself you give out and offer something so rare and unique with in people and that is VALUE.

We all love hanging out talking with and having relationships with people with value. From wanting to hang out with the popular kids back in school to wanting to date that beautiful woman or handsome guy. We all have a thing for value and if your one of the ones who have it then you will loved, adore, and most importantly live a life with happiness, fulfillment and peace.

You can gather value by one of two things. One, with having or achieving stuff or things, like money, cars, houses, statuses etc. Or you can get it by loving yourself. The way of loving yourself is actually the easiest, fastest and most permanent way to have value and keep it. Loving yourself  is accepting yourself and realising that your mistakes or flaws are universal and we all have them, the negative feelings that don't allow us to love ourselves come from a host of reasons, from broken commitments we've made with people and ourselves to criticism and trauma.

With a better and more positive outlook and acceptance and forgiveness to our selves will dramatically increase our self esteem and will make us feel better. Things like reading good self help books on a regular basis to building relationships with goal orientated people and listening to good audios from religion/spiritual host to a motivational speaker can help.
We are in a time right now that we should appreciate and feel blessed because there is so many tools that can help us be that  ultimate image inside and out of our selves.

There shouldn't really be any excuse to say you can't do something or be somebody. You must know and understand that this world and this life that were living can be a heaven or hell, it all depends on how you look at it. Get in the habit of loving yourself and if it seems hard all it means is that your self image is a bit off and just go out and gather tools to help you get that good self image back, although tools are not necessary, all you need is with in you. Awake that giant within you today by beginning to love yourself.

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Do it now!

Somewhere in the world right now there is a meeting going on. In this meeting there are 5 to 7 very successful businessmen and businesswomen. There talking over coffee or maybe some cocktails. They are discussing a very big, important and exciting project. Numbers are thrown around and they are not crouton size either. Investment and risk are mixed in like wine and vinegar.

Their about to make a decision that will either make it a huge success or it could make a crack on their wall. Boom! They all agree and decide to go forward with the deal. Now what do you think happens next?? Do you think they'll start celebrating and begin to order Crystal champagne and Beluga caviar? Do you think they'll start get up of the chairs and head home and begin to take breaths of relief that deal went through? If you said yes to either you are wrong yourself.

The things that they will do next  are almost beyond comprehension to many of you, the reason is that you guys NEVER DO THEM!  And actually is nit really "things" but a "thing" that is their next step and that is taking ACTION! One person gets on their phone and start talking to the secretary about certain documents she needs to file, another gets a pad out and start writing things to do, another begin to make phonecalls to certain firms and on and on till all of them finished doing some thing. And that thing is taking action NOW.

Many of us never do it now, that is why we get stuck and never move forward. People who are successful at what they do have this habit deeply ingrained within them. Next time you make a decision start getting into the habit of doing something now. If you decide to start a diet or exercise regime DO IT NOW! If you decide to start working on a business plan DO IT NOW! If you decide to just clean the garage today DO IT NOW!  Get into this habit, if you are not use to it start small with small task and it should start to build up.

If you do this and start to develop it as a habit you will see things magically change for the better. You'll be more productive, you'll get more things done, your priorities will increase and get actually finished. You'll have less heart ache and worry plus your stress level will decrease dramatically. Start changing your life NOW!

Go as far as you can see. But..

I talk to people all the time, and they always get a sort of a buzz by asking me.. where do you see yourself in 5 years? They think that the more description I give them and the more detail I can give them, will tell them whether I'll be successful or not. When in reality I think that the more you see yourself in the future and the more you try to make a structured plan down to the t then you open a huge door to worry, anxiety, fear and the biggest dream killer of them all "DOUBT".

I'm not saying to not have a goal, or chief aim, actually that's a necessity but when you try to think about your plans and go on your plans instead of faith then your destined to fail not only because you allow all those negative emotions we talked about to come into your mind, but you have to understand that plans always change. They always do, look back at your accomplishments through out your life, none of them ever came to you the way you expected, as you as you had a plan and employ it the plans changed, but your decision didn't.

If your focus and follow the recipe for success and know that the "how" on how to get what you want will present itself. You will stay in present time and focus on the now you will feel good, instead of all those negative emotions, that will give you a clearer mind for a clearer vision to focus on what you need to do now and conserve the energy you would have spent on fear and worry to use it for when that energy is actually needed, like in times when your goal actually is coming to pass and you need to take the massive action that is needed.

If you understand this concept then your life would be like a dream because you would never worry and get stuck in the what if? Concept which is another big killer of dreams. Live in the moment enjoy the now and Don't worry to much much about what is gonna happen next month or next year because guess what.. whatever presents itself YOU have everything you need within in you to handle it.

You become what you think about most of the time

Look around. No matter where you are just look around.. look at the objects, things, everything that is considered a thing. Want to know something interesting just in case you haven't notice. That is that everything you see started as thought. The buildings, the car, toy the roads the foods the clothes. It all started as a thought and somebody took it upon themselves to make it into reality.

I remember when I realised this, I was in shocked and just in aww with this realization. Touching peoples dreams desires fascinated me. Thoughts are things and we become what we think about most of the time, not in the literal sense but almost it kind of is. Sure if your a young guy your not gonna become a girl because that's what I would be thinking about non stop, but its more on the sense of what we want to see happen, our intention.

We all have dreams but not all us make them a reality and that could be for many reasons, but it is possible to make that thought into reality. Because it all starts that way. No wonder there's that ole saying that
90 percent of success is the thinking. Real simple, having the right thoughts towards your dream or what you want in your life will give you motivation, that motivation will make you take action and poof! Like magic your dreams manifest. It's not like these law of attraction gurus who think and teach you that you just have to focus on the right thought s and without effort to what you want and then the universe is gonna give you what you want, that is not really the case. Action is necessary, but when your thinking is right the actions are "pleasurable". That is the difference between the winners and losers of life.
You become what you think about most of the time is a phrase that you must not only remember but must act upon it so it can work for you instead of your working for it.

Adversity can create thankfulness

Look back at your life and look at all the good things you've accomplished or attain throughout it. At the moment of attainment you felt good, you felt secure, you felt just like you would expect to feel when you win. The feeling of winning is so powerful that we'll be willing to do almost about anything for it. Just look at the human race and their past actions. Those actions vary from angel like to devil like, good... and bad....

From the person who picks up a gun and a mask and decides to rob a bank, to the person who picks up his or her running shoes and decides they want to participate and finish a marathon so they go out and train everyday. The decisions of these individuals are different but the goal is the same. The robber really doesn't want tge money, he wants the feeling of winning the money will give him.

The runner does not really want to finish a marathon he or she wants the feeling finishing the marathon will give her. And in both cases winning is the goal.  They both also have another similarity. And that is they both would prefer that those actions needed to get to their goal would be different, bottom line they don't like it. But they know that is what they have to do. Whether they are right or wrong actions is irrelevant, all they care about is the feeling and when that feeling is sooo desired they will do anything to attain it.

You yourself most likely is not a bank robber, and may or not be a runner. But you do like winning. Look back at your wins of life (we all have them). Why did they feel so good? Could it be that it was the adversity you had to go through to achieve that win? Would it even feel that good without that struggle you had to go through, because YOU HAD to go through it. No good thing in this life is attained without some challenge, is frankly impossible.

The river needs the current to push it for it to stay nice. If it were to just stand still then all kinds of pest and odors and mold would start to build up. Think about it. We need challenge in our lives for us to stay fresh and clean and beautiful. Because is that adversity that makes us move forward without it we probably would turn into a non productive self destroying society. Without adversity we would probably not even be here at all, we would be EXTINCT!

So next time you find yourself with a challenge instead of getting worried, depressed, fearful, be thankful and grateful because something magical is about to happen. Get excited. This is what super successful people do that is why they are at that level and that is why in that level there are just a small amount of individuals. Become that winner you are by following this concept and thrive for what you want.

Your income will be the average of your 5 best friends

Your income will always be the average of your 5 best friends.

"If you keep hanging around those people you will turn out just like them!" .. All of us have had this phrase told to us by a loved one mainly our mothers at one point or another. Now that were adults, let's ask ourselves a question.. is that really true? Of course it is. There are countless of cases known and unknown of this happening. And it works profoundly when you were young and now as you have grown  up.

If your not where you really want to be in life then look at your priorities deeply and seriously, then look at your current friends or the people you hang around with a lot. For ONE you will notice that more than not your friends have a very similar income just like yours and TWO you all agree on most things, and of course you guys or gals will agree on most things, heck! You all are friends ;) and that is why you guys are staying friends. And I'm not here to tell you that a certain type of people or certain personalities are bad to be around but if you are looking for success ideally "income success" then the people you hang around play a bigger role in your life and affect it in a big way more than you think.

I remember when I was young that there were a lot of things I really liked to do,  especially because like every kid I loved the feeling of discovering new and cool things. Most of the cool discoveries I made came from people who were older than me, cousins, uncles, parents, teachers, TV etc. These discoveries varied from words to forms of speech, slangs stuff like that. When I made the discovery for example of a slang I remember loving to say it, repeat it and sharing it, mainly sharing it because just like I thought it was cool on the person I heard it from then I figure it would sound cool on me.

Why did those slangs and phrases and what not" stuck? because like I said I thought they were cool. But why did I thought they were cool? Well the reason is that I was close to these people. I had trust towards these people, and when your close to anybody then that opens a door for great value from that other person to you so that you can benefit. And that means whoever you see as an AUTHORITY then you will LISTEN..really listen. And finally act on it.

People who we see in authority does not have to be people that are older than us only. It could be people who are the same age as us or younger. We classify people as authority when we realise consciously but mostly unconsciously that they have value in what they say and are. And we have people like family and close friends that we put on that type of classification. That means more often than not we listen closely to whats its being said by them . That concludes to us that acting upon certain ideas of theirs will see us as valuable as them. And the more we hang around them the more we will catch the action and do it.

We have to be very careful and serious on who we decide to make close association with. Because whether you like it or not you will catch certain personality traits from them, at least if you care about your growth in life for the future. Its just like with any personal goal, you have to change certain things if you want a different result. You can not do the same thing and expect different results. And in my opinion the people who we associate on a regular have more influence than anything else we need or encounter on our journey to a certain end. Now family.. I'm not saying that if your family are negative or counter productive to your positive beliefs and ideas and dreams to just leave them and never see them again. Just don't hang around them as much as far as for you to give them an opportunity to influence your mind and the same thing goes with friends.

I have plenty of people I know, I know people from many levels on economic rates. And finally from many levels on personalities and beliefs. That means I have people I know who believe that being humble is the appropriate thing to do to the point that making money a focus in life to them is something closer to a sin than a blessing. I also have the friend that is motivated and have burning desires for financial freedom and believes that having money is a necessary goal to be achieved for ultimate happiness in this life.

One of my goals in life IS financial freedom, so would I hang around more with the poor humble person  or the motivated money focus friend? Of course the money motivated friend because we have a similarity trait, But it doesn't mean I will just leave my humble friend either. It means that when its time to relax  and enjoy time with friends sure they are invited. But the money focus person is the person I will catch lunch with throughout the week. Because were going on the same road and our personalities not only match the beliefs but also gives us more joy and concepts to talk about. That is why their our friends. I would suggest you read Napoleon Hill s book called The law of success in 16 lessons or Think and grow rich, because in those books Napoleon Hill talks about a concept few people know and even fewer people apply it but its oh so powerful and that is the concept of The Mastermind.

Napoleon Hill tells us that there is power in focus, when I say power I mean power beyond our physical eyes but that still exist, he mentions that the power dramatically increases when 2 or more people are gathered in communion, meaning their in the same room and all of the ones in the room are LIKE MINDED. This power is what creates your reality, whether you are a loser or winner this power of focus Napoleon hill and many others have talked about plays at least 90% of the result. When were next to a person who is going towards that same goal or similar to ours that power of focus increases and the chance of success raises to incredible heights. I will be going over this concept in detail in a later post. But for now I would suggest grabbing a copy of one of these classic and great books from napoleon hill and read about the concept of the MASTERMIND and the power it influences. Then you will understand on a deeper level why the people who we hand around play  Such a big role in whether were a success or failure or just don't seem to get anywhere.

How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time

How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.

Overwhelming or feeling overwhelmed is probably one the most if not the most powerful ways to be crushed. You go to work or to your house or to you car etc and you see that things need to get done maybe some cleaning,work,organization etc. But there are times where its just too much to endure and handle. it really is not but you think it is and that is what crushes you. And its not only in the workplace or at home but on yourself.
Maybe there's a crisis, maybe there's a situation that came about that you didn't expect. Its really easy to look at one of those events and get overwhelmed, we allow the overwhelming to get the best of us. And I understand, because if your house gets burned down and you loose you job and your spouse leave you it sounds really stupid on my part to tell you to not feel overwhelmed and that your actually allowing it to get the best of you. So have your moment of overwhelm and after that realise that no matter what you see in front of you and no matter how big it may look you don't have to carry all that load.
It all starts with one step. That is all that must be on your mind, that one step. Because that is all you can handle but somehow subconsciously you feel you are unlimited in consuming. If there is an elephant in your refrigerator for you to eat you cannot eat it all in one bite, its impossible! But if you start with one bite you can finish it. It might take a year but if you focus on just bite at a time you can finish it.
What most people do is they look at the big thing in front of them and skip the one bite and focus on trying to get the whole thing out at once. And once they realise they cant all hell breaks loose, they get worried, they get angry some may even cry and scream " why me?! Why me?!" No wonder people feel negative emotions instead of energy when a challenge in life presents itself.
But it also is not just confined into events that present themselves that you have to handle but also when it comes to thing you want to see happen "goals" if you never made a good sum of money in your life so far and then just want to make a million dollars then your gonna have a hard time, because again your looking at the big thing instead of just that one bite.
It's not easy to take on a big set of weights when you have never worked out before. And even when you are capable of being able to lift you don't have the progressive motivation and enough successes that you may doubt yourself and give up. It is always easy when you focus on the one bite at a time. It doesn't look that bad anymore and it doesn't look so overwhelming either if anything it looks like an excited challenge and we all love those.
It also goes very well with being in present time. When your too focus on a "what if" or some type of future incident you are looking at your current situation with a negative future vision, now there is nothing wrong at looking at things and seeing what they could become, that is a very necessity perspective to make things happen, if it wasn't for what people call tunnel vision we would not have many of the things we currently benefit from like a light bulb or a car etc. The consequences land on looking at your situation in a negative way, and the only reason why it looks negative is because your putting a future judgement on it with a "negative" spin. You can add a future vision to your situations as long as their positive but you must be a very positive person to achieve this, because most of us lets face it we don't have super will power when it comes to positive mental focus although it is possible.
If you could learn to stay in present time. Then you wont put most of your focus on the future. And that will bring you peace and relaxation. And will cause you to preserve your energy for you to overcome your situation. Life is simple the reason you may think is complicated is because your looking at the whole thing Instead of just taking it one step at a time and even if you don't think that way you are still doing it. Because its impossible to perfectly do or think two thing's at once, you might as well take easiest and more beneficial way out. Which is the simplest and that's taking it one step at a time.