Play the understanding game

If your driving, and out of no where there is a vehicle on your left or right and suddenly CUTS YOU OFF! Are you one of the people who gets mad out of control and starts yelling, cussing and over the wall annoyed.. Or are you one of those very rare individuals who just let it rub off you and really just don't let incidents of that nature to even affect you, and go about your day. Or are you just one of those incredibly super rare individuals who actually look at it almost as a blessing because you didn't crash and probably think that the individual who just cut you off most likely had a bad day or terrible incident that is making him rush and take an action like that..

Most people fall under the first explanation I just described. If you let something this small to get you into a negative mood then I would totally understand if I were to look and see your status as unsuccessful, because if you let something this small control you because it's making you lose half a second to your destination, then what were to happen when an incident happens on the way to making your goal a reality and sets you back 5 months or a year back? You would most likely quit, because you have no strength to hang with the wolves and lions of competition and incidents that have to be there on the road to success so you can blissfully enjoy the result to a very high extent.

Whenever there is an incident that somebody acts in a negative, rude, jerk type of matter towards you, try to play the understanding game, instead of reacting, and acting as a puppet and allowing people to pull your strings. The understanding game will allow you to control any negative interactions with any body and any time, it will not only increase your self esteem but it will make you become more valuable as a human being and you will always have the upper hand and you will come out as a winner of the so called argument or negative incident every time.

You have to understand that the reason that person is acting like a jerk or being rude is really all because they have a bigger negative issue going on and you were just lucky enough to receive their anguish. Because the negative feelings in all of us have to come out somehow, so your almost like a reliever for them. Maybe their pet just passed away or a family member or friend passed away, maybe their on the verge of a divorce or maybe they just got fired and their feeling terrible or even maybe they just got news that they just won the lottery and rushing home to celebrate.

The point is this.. whatever negative action you receive from somebody else there is always a reason that would make that negative reaction to be understandable. Playing the understanding game allows you to become an amazing person because of how good you will feel since the negative wont affect you. You will also raise your value because doing this increases your character to tremendous levels. Play the understanding game and become that winner you were meant to be.

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