For those of you who have flown on an airplane before will know what I'm talking about in this post. First of I hope you guys ate enjoying your holidays. Merry Christmas to all of you and may all of you have a blessed and safe holidays and new years. When you get on an airplane they explain something very crucial in detail before the plane takes off.
And that is about the oxygen mask that the plane have and how they would pop out in case of cabin pressure or emergency. And the message is specifically for parents or those who are flying with young ones. They say that in case of cabin pressure for YOU to put your mask on first before assisting your children. Because if you don't then your child may love or be conscious but you may not. So whatever the child may need there wont be anybody to assist him or her and the child has a higher risk of getting into danger.
But if you do what they are saying and follow the rules then you will be well and up and in a position where you can fully 100% assist and help the child by putting on their mask or anything else they may need. I love this concept and it really stands out to me because this concept is true and can be used in life whenever it comes to REALLY helping someone else.
One of the big things in life is the idea of good deeds in other words offering a help in hand to someone who needs it. I have nothing against this. I'm all for helping, in my opinion helping and offering help is one the greatest satisfaction s that exist. You get to offer value and you feel good about yourself. Material things cannot give you feelings of that nature or at least to that strong extent. But I do think there is a better way of offering help and to do it in a more effective way. And that is by making sure your fine, ok, good yourself first.
Most people when offering help most of the time they are not in a position where they should offer help or at least the help they really want to be impacting. For example if a good friend of yours is going through some pain and suffering because maybe they got fired or they lost a love one, if you go up and you feel terrible yourself or you may not be in a good healthy emotional state then how can you assist and make that other person feel better if both of you are in the low vibrational depressed, sad space. You CANT!
You need to help yourself first you have to make sure your in a better place than the person your trying to help. Not doing this is the wrong way to go about helping someone else. It's like people want to go and help those with not that many resources. Well if you don't have money and your sort of broke yourself you cannot really help anyone, we live in a material world whether you like it or not and money is necessary to live. So if you don't have an abundance the help your giving is not really making the real difference you want to make.
And this goes to this last thing I'm gonna talk about. Most people want to help and give advice on what to do and not to do. They do this so much and they try to help everyone they can but themselves. They go and spent their time and few dollars and try to help. The reality is that no matter how much advice they give or money they hand out nobody really is listening to them so they are not really changing or helping anybody.
The best way to impact a life is by inspiring that life. That is the BEST way to help anyone. Focus on yourself and work on becoming the best possible version of yourself and once you get to a place where you are abundant in success and happiness yourself just by your presence alone you will cause such an impact to that person who doesn't have much and that you want to help that you wouldn't even believe. You will offer something so valuable to that person just by your presence and that thing that is so valuable more than money or any material stuff is INSPIRATION that will cause them to change their life by their own choice.
Because for the first time in a very long time they feel and see real hope and that cause faith and faith is what dream are really made of so success for them is inevitable.
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