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Tuesday, December 2, 2014

If you don't love yourself, nobody else will love you

"If you don't love yourself nobody else will love you" that saying must be internally ingrained with in your whole dna, if you want good relationships with your friends, family, and anybody you can come in contact with. But most importantly with yourself you will have to learn to love yourself.

If your lacking in any of these then there is an outstanding chance that you have a challenge with not only loving yourself but with accepting yourself. If you would just focus on loving yourself in actuality all other relationships will fall into place. The reason for that is because when you love yourself and accept yourself you give out and offer something so rare and unique with in people and that is VALUE.

We all love hanging out talking with and having relationships with people with value. From wanting to hang out with the popular kids back in school to wanting to date that beautiful woman or handsome guy. We all have a thing for value and if your one of the ones who have it then you will loved, adore, and most importantly live a life with happiness, fulfillment and peace.

You can gather value by one of two things. One, with having or achieving stuff or things, like money, cars, houses, statuses etc. Or you can get it by loving yourself. The way of loving yourself is actually the easiest, fastest and most permanent way to have value and keep it. Loving yourself  is accepting yourself and realising that your mistakes or flaws are universal and we all have them, the negative feelings that don't allow us to love ourselves come from a host of reasons, from broken commitments we've made with people and ourselves to criticism and trauma.

With a better and more positive outlook and acceptance and forgiveness to our selves will dramatically increase our self esteem and will make us feel better. Things like reading good self help books on a regular basis to building relationships with goal orientated people and listening to good audios from religion/spiritual host to a motivational speaker can help.
We are in a time right now that we should appreciate and feel blessed because there is so many tools that can help us be that  ultimate image inside and out of our selves.

There shouldn't really be any excuse to say you can't do something or be somebody. You must know and understand that this world and this life that were living can be a heaven or hell, it all depends on how you look at it. Get in the habit of loving yourself and if it seems hard all it means is that your self image is a bit off and just go out and gather tools to help you get that good self image back, although tools are not necessary, all you need is with in you. Awake that giant within you today by beginning to love yourself.

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