I talk to people all the time, and they always get a sort of a buzz by asking me.. where do you see yourself in 5 years? They think that the more description I give them and the more detail I can give them, will tell them whether I'll be successful or not. When in reality I think that the more you see yourself in the future and the more you try to make a structured plan down to the t then you open a huge door to worry, anxiety, fear and the biggest dream killer of them all "DOUBT".
I'm not saying to not have a goal, or chief aim, actually that's a necessity but when you try to think about your plans and go on your plans instead of faith then your destined to fail not only because you allow all those negative emotions we talked about to come into your mind, but you have to understand that plans always change. They always do, look back at your accomplishments through out your life, none of them ever came to you the way you expected, as you as you had a plan and employ it the plans changed, but your decision didn't.
If your focus and follow the recipe for success and know that the "how" on how to get what you want will present itself. You will stay in present time and focus on the now you will feel good, instead of all those negative emotions, that will give you a clearer mind for a clearer vision to focus on what you need to do now and conserve the energy you would have spent on fear and worry to use it for when that energy is actually needed, like in times when your goal actually is coming to pass and you need to take the massive action that is needed.
If you understand this concept then your life would be like a dream because you would never worry and get stuck in the what if? Concept which is another big killer of dreams. Live in the moment enjoy the now and Don't worry to much much about what is gonna happen next month or next year because guess what.. whatever presents itself YOU have everything you need within in you to handle it.
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