You make the rules

Everyday and at any moment we come across all kinds of regulations from traffic regulations, to regulations at work and all the above. But what about rules? Are rules and regulations the same? No, they are not the same, regulations are what they are what they are, they are either law enforced or labor works and so on. But the rules nobody really sets them but YOU.


You create the rules of your life. Where people get confused is that they think someone else creates the rules. An example is this, people make a big deal about a making a million dollars, if you could make a million dollars you become super successful. If you believe this then guess what, if your working and focused on making money and you've made quite a good amount but not a million. Then you will still unfortunately feel like you haven't won. How could you ever built the confidence needed to get to that million. In reality NEVER.

Remember that you make the rules. Start by making the rules easy for you to win. Yes your ultimate goal may be a million and I'm not saying to change it, all I'm saying is change the rules. Instead of making the rule that you are gonna be this ultimate winner when you make a million you can change it to something smaller and something you know you can hit. That will build confidence and you will feel like the true winner you really are all the time..

How great and good will that be, actually it would be a blast. The whole point when it comes to success is to realise that success is really just a decision away and that you have control of it all. Stop listening and following societies rules, because they are opinions. Do what all the super successful and happiest people all around the world do and that is realising that YOU call the shots in YOUR life. And whatever you say goes

The challenge with why people feel like they haven't accomplished much and stay there is because they are giving their power away, their giving their power to other people, how can you ever really succeed when you have no power at all because you given it all away..

If you want to lose weight which is is something most people struggle with, instead of following the rule that sexy or an ideal weight is 130 pounds and your 200 pounds overweight no matter how hard you try your chances of winning are close to impossible, your too far away. Your giving your power away, that means no energy and that means no action or if you do take action you'll quit because your not in CONTROL!

But if you realise you set the rules and you make the rule that loosing one pound is success then that will make it easier for you and when you reach that pound and lose it you'll feel like a million bucks and you would have develop the confidence to set a higher goal.
Remember you are in control of your life nobody sets the rules for you. You are a winner take charge, and know that you make the rules in YOUR life.