It shocks me to this day at how most people don't use two of the most powerful words you can use when communicating. People know they exist they just don't use it, and I believe it all goes back to the same concept I always talk about.. and that is simplicity. People see it as too basic or simple and they think it don't carry value, when in actuality value is all it carries and value is what defines it.
Do you like to have long term relationships? With friends or lovers, family etc? Do you want them to last? Of course you do. Do you want them to bring you the real joy a true friendship will bring you? And again the answer us if course. We all like having those types of relationships, in all directions. Because relationships in my opinion define life by a very long shot.
And I've notice that as people age relationships define much of the majority of their happiness and reason for inspiration in a major big way. Everything count and everything is worth doing to keep a relationship stable and to keep it in the frutitious state. So don't take what I'm about to tell you too simple that is not worth reading or trying it out for you.
The words you say cannot only change the state within you but it can also change the state within other people as well. It's really not the words that make the difference bit its the emotion and intention behind the., I talked a little about this in my last post. If your state inside when speaking to somebody is good most of the time your conversation will turn out good, a good example is the success people have in negotiation. So we want to make sure that our state is always good when speaking to others. This offers and shows value as well.
The words we use can bring us to that good state faster thus it impremiates that other person as well. Two words that can do that for you are "please and thank you" please and thank you have a lot of positive energy attached to them. From humbleness to appreciation and even recognition. That's a whole lot of good energy to be compacted into two words. And that is why it makes these two words very powerful.
Just think about how you have felt when someone has recognized you by saying thank you or expressed humbleness by saying please. Now compare to that acceptance think about times when people or someone did not express those well manners. The energy and your perception of that individual is dramatically different.
And it may not seem like a lot but it holds a heavy in balance between each two that the actions and perception on you is well by far impacted. Every successful person knows good manners and understands proper etiquette and the reason they put much importance on this is because they understand how important being well mannered is crucial to success in every type.
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